“My heart is shattered,” said Alessandra Rampolla, reflecting on the profound loss of her colleague and friend, Mel Schilling, who passed away at the age of 54 after a courageous battle with colon cancer.
Mel Schilling, a practicing psychologist for over 20 years, was first diagnosed with colon cancer in December 2023. Despite undergoing treatment, including chemotherapy, her cancer returned after a brief remission in January 2025 and metastasized to her brain in February 2024.
Rampolla, who worked alongside Schilling for five years, shared her grief in a heartfelt tribute on March 25, 2026. “You were so much more than a colleague,” she expressed, highlighting the deep bond they formed during their time together on the reality show, Married At First Sight.
Schilling was not only a prominent figure on both the Australian and British versions of the show but also a beloved psychologist who touched many lives. She was married to Gareth Brisbane and was the mother of ten-year-old Maddie.
In her final months, Mel made the difficult decision to step back from filming to prioritize her health and family. “You will be deeply, deeply missed… but never forgotten, Chica,” Rampolla added, emphasizing the lasting impact Schilling had on those around her.
John Aiken, another colleague, echoed Rampolla’s sentiments, stating, “I am heartbroken, devastated, and finding it hard to breathe.” His words reflect the collective mourning felt by those who knew Schilling.
Mel’s legacy as a psychologist and a reality TV star will continue to resonate with her fans and colleagues alike. She had a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology and a Graduate Diploma in Psychology, showcasing her commitment to her profession.
As the news of her passing spreads, many are left to reflect on the joy and wisdom she brought into their lives. Details remain unconfirmed regarding any memorial services or tributes planned in her honor.